In 2007, I hope you make time for the things
that are important to you. For some of you,
this may mean actually taking a few moments
to focus in on your own needs. Trust me,
this is not selfish, it is essential. For
others, it may mean reviewing your past
choices, choosing differently and/or
conscientiously sticking to the plan you
have for yourself despite obstacles.
I find it rather ironic that in nursing
school we all spent hours developing care
plans that would meet our patient's needs.
In fact, I know nurses whose sole job
responsibility is to oversee and develop
accurate, individualized and appropriate
care plans. It is an important and necessary
job that I do believe is at the core of
effective care giving.
Therein lies the core of this message.
Nurses in general, forget to take care of
themselves…really take care of themselves.
It is the nature of those in the helping
professions, especially nurses, to consider
their own needs last. We will skip lunches,
allotted breaks, cancel our own doctor's
appointments and leisure activities to meet
the demands of work, our children, spouses,
etc.
We teach patients and clients about changing
their lifestyles for their improved health
and well being, cautioning them on the
cumulative effects of insufficient rest,
proper diet, exercise and follow-up care.
Yet, in relation to ourselves, we often miss
the mark and place our needs on the
"someday" or "when I get time to" lists. In
truth, this contributes to our own health
care problems, burn out and elevated
cortisol levels.
The point here is this. Have you
developed a care plan for yourself? If you
haven't, I implore you to do it today. Take
a few moments and identify your own
self-care deficits. Then relate the deficit
to how it manifests in your life. Do you
have any idea of how to address the problem?
What do you need to do to manage, alleviate
or eliminate it? How long will you try the
idea out to see if it works? If at first
you don't succeed, will you try something
else? Ultimately what is the goal?
One of Nutrira's care plan goals as a
company is to provide respite and renewal
services to all of our nursing colleagues
across the nation. If we are going to
survive the current state of healthcare and
nursing shortages while nurturing and share
our wisdom with new nurses coming into the
profession, we have got to take time
routinely to renew our minds, bodies and
spirits. If you are at the crossroads of
your nursing career and are considering
changing from direct clinical care to
management, consulting, maybe going back to
school or even leaving the healthcare
community, Nutrira supports you through the
transition because we "nourish" our own.
As you are pondering the above, click
Rent :Trailer No. 1 and just close your
eyes and take in the song. Let the music and
voices provide you with a little escape.
Seize this moment and start a care plan for
yourself. You have done it hundreds, if not
thousands of times for others with great
care. Turn inward, take a long deep long
breath and take your turn.
Then drop me a line and tell me how you will
be spending some of your minutes this year.
What you are planning for yourself,
personally and/or professionally, and if we
can help you by providing resources for
guidance.
Happy New Year,
Gloria